Saturday, October 6, 2012

How to Beat a Bully Without Using Your Fists.

Some bullies want to provoke you just to see how you'll react. How then,can you beat a bully without using your fists?

1.TAKE A LIGHTHEARTED APPROACH. If a taunt is simply an attempt at humor, try to laugh it off instead of getting offended. "Sometimes it's just a matter of not taking aggresive statements so seriously, "says a student name Jack. If a bully sees that his words have little effect,he
may stop the harassment.
2. BE MILD. A kind reply is what the bully least expects,and it
can defuse a tense situation.True,keeping coolheaded when under attack takes self-control. But it's always the better course. Mildness is a sign of strenght. The mild person isn't easily thrown off balance, while the bully is often insecure, frustrated, or even desperate.
3.PROTECT YOURSELF. If a situation seems out of control,you may need
to find an escape route.So if violence appears imminent,walk or run
away.If escape is impossible,you may need to ward off violence the best way you can.


The bottom line?
A Bully can't win if you refuse to play his game. So don't get sucked into the flames of his anger. Instead, take control of the situation by employing the above suggestions.
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